Friday, 10 April 2015
The Joys of Boys
Boys get so much bad press, but there are so many reasons to celebrate them.
Here are the things I love about my boys:
1. I love it that they can spend two hours making 'nettle sting potion' with doc leaves and water.
2. I chuckle to myself when someone asks 'who's farted' and they proudly own up, enjoying being congratulated by the others.
3. I love listening to them whispering secret plans to each other: "Get dressed and I'll meet you outside."
4. I smile watching them spend almost a whole week creating 'defence systems' for their playhouse, complete with water bombs, stinging nettles and elaborate traps.
5. I love watching them eat their food with wholehearted satisfaction and enjoyment.
6. It makes my insides melt when they hug me at just the right time.
7. I love the fact that they can be arguing and bickering and then the cat suddenly sees another cat in the garden and is frightened. Suddenly, the boys square their shoulders, forget their petty differences and go outside to protect their cat together.
8. Their surprised faces when I wear clothes that are different to my usual 'mum' attire and their comments of 'wow, Mum, you look really beautiful' give me a glimpse of the men they are going to become. And it's a good glimpse.
9. I love the way they fight courageously for justice.
10. Their laughter, fun and sharp sense of humour makes me laugh, even when I am trying desperately not to.
11. I love the fact that a kiss from me is the ultimate threat.
They are hard work and exhausting sometimes but I wouldn't have my family any other way. What a privilege to be able to grow these young ones into the men they are supposed to become.